HERE'S A QUOTE LADIES

"I was hurt by a guy, but I didn't write off guys. I wrote off HIM."

-Tyra freaking Banks!

Wow she said something gooddddddddddd. Amen to that sista!

LOL I know I just made a post but I had to say this.

Give peace a chance?
GIVE LOVE A CHANCE!

Girls, don't close your minds. Guys, TAKE A CHANCE PLEASSEEEEEE. Honestly, please everyone. I know I'm not the "love expert", but HELL I know some things.

CRUSHES: Okay. So what happens with crushes? You like someone. You like, like, like, LIKEEEEE someone. I guess there are a lot of things you could do. You could just tell the person. You could...not do a thing. But hey, let's just listen to some Natalie D wisdom: "If you are not mature enough to ask a person out, you are not mature enough to date." So decide what you want to do, AND GO DO IT. I know it is SO MUCH EASIER said than done, but you know what? IT'S WORTH IT. If it works out, kudos to you. If it doesn't, then move on.

DATING: Keep it light kids. Honestly, please don't promise forevers and love and marriage - if your relationship is strong, it doesn't need these pretty things. TRUST! You gotta trust. Those pretty words are NOTHING, and in the end, they will be sharp and meaningless if it doesn't turn out well. If there is nothing backing those claims up, then they will be worthless. But boys, here's a tip: Girls all have a slightly low self esteem. So tell them they are beautiful, tell them they are wonderful. Just don't lie. :) Enjoy, laugh, be happy. That's all you need.

Don't angst kids. Dating and love and such are supposed to make you HAPPY. If it's drama and rain and thunder all the time, then how is that different from being under constant attack. It's not supposed to be butterflies and rainbows all the time but YO, don't let it crush you. It's really not worth it.

THIS IS GETTING REALLY LONG. I have a lot to say about the subject, LOL. Be happy before you get involved with someone. You gotta be happy by yourself before you can try to make someone else's day. Girls: you don't need a boyfriend to make you happy. All you need are two friends who read your blog posts, LOLLLLLL. (Thanks ladies. LOL)

And you know what? For all you single people out there, HOLLA! It's OKAY TO BE SINGLE, AND HECKA FUN. You can talk to whoever you want, you can flirt and like and flit and be YOUNG! Don't tie yourself down to early - it will come. There is someone for everyone, and NOT JUST ONE PERSON FOR EVERYONE. There are so many people you can fall in love with - wait until you know what you want!

When you have a partner, please don't give up your friends. Honestly, that is hurting yourself. When you are in your little world with your boy/girlfriend, take some time out to chill with your homeboys and homegirls. Bros before hoes. Chicks before...guys. Don't ever make yourself alone. :)

AND YOU KNOW WHAT? DON'T LIE, DON'T MANIPULATE, DON'T CHEAT! Don't don't don't cheat. It is so wrong, on so many levels. I don't think there is any reason to cheat. Just don't. If you aren't happy, then END IT. Why prolong it, why cause MORE pain? It's not worth it.

When it's going to end, then end it. Don't drag it out. Don't pretend. I know breaking up is HARD, HARD, HARD. It is so hard, and I understand why you wouldn't want to. But every minute longer the relationship drags on, the harder it is to move on from it. Tell the truth. It's hard, but hey - it's the only valiant way.

I think in the end, the truth hurts, but it will always be appreciated. Don't be afraid. :)

SO YEAH, HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY. I hope that wasn't depressing. It really wasn't supposed to be. But honestly, many times it is obvious what the right path should be. It's just the harder path to go on. But let's try to have an honest, happy, NICE V-day, okay everyone?

Mucho lovah to all the ladies and all the guys out there. Keep it chill, kids.

"Let's all be happy together, ne?"